Is it normal to barely text your partner?
Depends.It depends
Yes, some couples barely text and feel perfectly connected; others need more contact to feel close. What matters is whether the rhythm works for both of you, not how often other couples message.
Some partners use texting mostly to make plans, while others send little updates all day. Both can be normal—people have different habits, schedules, and ideas about what staying connected looks like.
If you’re both happy with it, there’s no texting quota to meet. If you’re feeling ignored or unsure where you stand, bring it up plainly and talk about what kind of check-ins would feel good to each of you. The issue is usually mismatched expectations, not the number of messages.