Is it normal to be annoyed by your boyfriend?
Yep.Totally normal
Yes, it’s normal to feel annoyed by your boyfriend sometimes—even when you love him. What matters is whether it’s occasional friction or a constant sign that something needs to change.
You’re two different people sharing time, habits, and probably at least one opinion about how to load the dishwasher. Little irritations are part of being close, and they don’t automatically mean you’re a bad partner or that the relationship is doomed.
If you feel annoyed most of the time, or the same issue keeps coming up, it’s worth asking what’s underneath it. A calm conversation about the specific behavior—or some time to yourself—can help more than silently keeping score.