Topics Crushes & attraction

Is it normal to be attracted to coworkers?

Mostly.Normal for most people

Yes, it’s normal to feel attracted to a coworker; spending time together and getting to know each other can spark a crush. What matters is keeping things respectful and professional, especially if there’s a power imbalance or either of you isn’t interested.

Absolutely. You see coworkers regularly, share experiences, and get to know their personalities, so a crush can happen—even if you’d never have picked them out of a lineup at the office holiday party. Plenty of people find a coworker attractive at some point.

Having the feeling doesn’t mean you have to do anything about it. Keep work comfortable for both of you, respect a no, and think carefully about workplace policies or any manager-report relationship before making a move. A private crush is one thing; making someone feel cornered at work is another.

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