Is it normal to be attracted to other people while in a relationship?
Mostly.Normal for most people
Yes, it’s normal to notice or feel attracted to other people while you’re in a relationship. Attraction can happen without meaning you love your partner less or want to act on it.
Being in a relationship doesn’t switch off your ability to find other people attractive. You might notice a spark, have a passing crush, or appreciate someone’s looks; lots of people experience this, even in happy, committed relationships.
What matters is what you do with the feeling. You and your partner may have different boundaries around flirting or staying in touch with a crush, so it can help to talk about those expectations if it’s causing tension. A passing attraction doesn’t have to become a big deal—or a secret second relationship.