Is it normal to be bored of your boyfriend?
Yes, it’s normal to feel bored with your boyfriend sometimes, especially when the relationship falls into a routine. If you feel checked out most of the time, though, it may be worth asking whether you want to reconnect or whether the relationship no longer fits.
Even good relationships have stretches that feel more like the same dinner, the same stories, and the same show on the couch. That doesn’t automatically mean you’ve stopped loving him or that anything is wrong; having your own interests and bringing some novelty into your time together can help.
The useful distinction is whether the boredom feels temporary or persistent. If you still enjoy being close and talking, but your routine is stale, you could try doing something new together—or spend a little more time on your own hobbies. If you regularly dread seeing him or feel no curiosity about the relationship, be honest with yourself about what you want. You don’t have to force excitement, but you also don’t have to treat one dull patch as a breakup notice.