Is it normal to be scared of losing your girlfriend?
Mostly.Normal for most people
Yes, it’s normal to fear losing someone you love, especially when the relationship matters a lot to you. It’s worth paying attention if the fear starts driving jealousy, constant reassurance-seeking, or attempts to control her.
When you care about someone, the possibility of losing them can feel scary. That can come from how much the relationship means to you, past heartbreak, or plain old uncertainty—not necessarily a sign that anything is wrong between you.