Is it normal to date your in-law?
It can happen, but whether it feels okay depends a lot on the circumstances and your family’s boundaries. Dating an in-law while you’re still with their relative is likely to cause serious hurt; after that relationship has ended, it may be awkward but can work for some families.
“In-law” can mean a lot of things, so the context matters. If you’re still married to or dating their relative, pursuing your in-law is likely to create a painful mess and damage trust. Feelings can happen; acting on them is a choice, and boundaries matter.
If the relationship with their relative is over, dating them isn’t automatically wrong, but it can stir up awkwardness, loyalty conflicts, or family gossip. Some families roll with it; others don’t. Being honest, moving slowly, and talking through the possible fallout is usually kinder than keeping it secret.