Is it normal to fall out of love quickly?
Yes, it can be normal for romantic feelings to fade quickly, especially when the initial excitement wears off or you realize you’re not a good match. If it keeps happening and bothers you, it may be worth looking at what tends to change for you in relationships.
Yes. Sometimes what feels like falling out of love is the early rush settling down, or you getting to know someone well enough to see that the fit isn’t right. Feelings don’t always grow at the same pace, and you’re allowed to change your mind.
If it happens in nearly every relationship, that doesn’t mean anything is wrong with you, but it could help to notice the pattern: for example, whether closeness starts to feel uncomfortable, or whether you tend to be drawn to the chase more than the day-to-day relationship. You don’t need to force yourself to stay just because the feelings changed.