Is it normal to feel bored in a relationship?
Yes, it’s normal to feel bored sometimes, especially when the routine settles in. If the boredom sticks around or comes with feeling disconnected, it may be worth talking about what you both need.
Even a good relationship can have stretches that feel more like errands and shared TV than grand romance. Lots of couples go through quieter, more predictable patches; that doesn’t automatically mean you picked the wrong person or that the relationship is over.
The useful question is whether you’re bored with the routine or with being together. Try talking honestly without making it a verdict on the whole relationship, and find something new to do together—or make room for interests of your own. If you’ve felt checked out for a long time, that’s a nudge to look more closely at what’s missing.