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Is it normal to feel very lonely after a breakup?

Yep.Totally normal

Yes—feeling very lonely after a breakup is completely normal. You’re grieving both the relationship and the everyday closeness and routines that came with it.

A breakup can leave a surprisingly big empty space: fewer check-ins, changed plans, and no longer having that person to turn to. Even if ending the relationship was the right choice, missing the connection doesn’t mean you made the wrong decision.

Lots of people feel lonely after a breakup, and it can come in waves. Lean on friends or family, make a few plans you can look forward to, and give yourself time to adjust rather than expecting to feel fine on a schedule.

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