Is it normal to feel weird after getting engaged?
Yes. Feeling strange, unsettled, or unexpectedly unsure after getting engaged is common; a big commitment can bring up more than one emotion at once.
An engagement can turn an exciting relationship milestone into a very real decision, so it’s not unusual to feel odd, anxious, or even a little sad alongside the happiness. You might also be reacting to the attention, wedding pressure, or the sudden sense that everyone expects you to be thrilled.
You don’t have to treat one weird feeling as proof that you made the wrong choice. Give yourself a little space to notice what’s behind it, and talk honestly with your partner if it sticks around. If the feeling is tied to specific doubts about the relationship, those are worth discussing rather than trying to wave away.