Is it normal to fight after getting engaged?
Yes, it’s normal for couples to argue after getting engaged. Big decisions and new expectations can bring stress to the surface; what matters is whether you can work through disagreements with respect.
Getting engaged can turn up the pressure: you may suddenly be discussing money, family, wedding plans, where to live, or what married life should look like. Even happy changes can bring out differences you hadn’t had to deal with before, so a few arguments don’t automatically mean you’re a bad match.
Pay attention to the pattern more than the fact that you fight. Can you both listen, take responsibility, and make up without insults or intimidation? If arguments are constant, feel unsafe, or reveal big disagreements about the life you want, it’s worth slowing down and talking those through before moving ahead.