Is it normal to fight with your spouse?
Yes, it’s normal for spouses to argue sometimes; living closely with someone means you’ll occasionally disagree. What matters is whether you can talk things through respectfully and feel safe with each other.
Even couples who love each other and get along well will clash over money, chores, family, or who forgot to replace the toilet paper. A disagreement now and then doesn’t mean your marriage is in trouble.
The bigger clue is how you fight and what happens afterward. If you can both speak without threats or cruelty, listen, and eventually repair things, occasional arguments are usually just part of sharing a life. If fights are constant, leave you afraid, or involve intimidation or violence, that’s not something you have to accept as normal; consider reaching out to someone you trust or a professional for support.