Topics Crushes & attraction

Is it normal to like gay men?

Yep.Totally normal

Yes—whether you mean finding gay men attractive or simply enjoying them as people, that’s normal. Attraction doesn’t guarantee you’ll be romantically compatible, though.

If you mean you’re attracted to gay men, that’s a perfectly ordinary thing to feel. Attraction doesn’t always line up neatly with who’s available or likely to return it, and it doesn’t say anything definitive about your own orientation.

If you mean you like gay men as friends or people, also normal—gay men are not a single personality type, but there’s nothing odd about enjoying someone’s company. Just treat each person as an individual, and respect their boundaries and orientation.

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