Is it normal to not argue in a relationship?
Depends.It depends
Yes—some couples rarely argue and are perfectly happy. What matters is whether you can bring up disagreements honestly, not whether you ever fight.
Some people naturally agree on a lot, handle differences calmly, or let small stuff go. A relationship doesn’t need shouting matches to be real or healthy; plenty of couples rarely argue and feel close.
The thing to watch is whether “we don’t argue” means you both feel safe speaking up, or one of you is swallowing concerns to keep the peace. Being able to disagree, listen, and work things out matters more than how often you clash.