Is it normal to not have a crush at 13?
Yep.Totally normal
Yes, it’s completely normal not to have a crush at 13. People start having crushes at different times, and some have them rarely or not at all.
There’s no deadline for getting a crush. At 13, some people are already swooning over someone, while others are more interested in friends, hobbies, or whatever’s for lunch. All of that is normal.
You might develop crushes later, or you might not feel them often—and neither means there’s anything wrong with you. You don’t have to force a feeling just because other people are talking about theirs.