Is it normal to not miss your partner when they are away?
Mostly.Normal for most people
Yes, it’s normal not to miss your partner much when they’re away. Missing someone—or not missing them—doesn’t by itself measure how much you love them.
You might enjoy having your own space, stay busy, or simply feel secure that you’ll see each other again. People experience time apart differently, and some don’t feel a strong sense of missing someone even when they care deeply about them.
It may be worth paying attention if you consistently feel relieved they’re gone or feel disconnected when they’re back—but even then, it’s a reason to reflect on the relationship, not proof that something is wrong. What matters more is how you treat each other and how you feel together.