Is it normal to not want to move in with your partner?
Yes, it can be completely normal not to want to live with your partner, whether that’s a “not yet” or a firm preference. What matters is being honest about what you want and finding out whether your plans are compatible.
People want different things from home and relationships. You might value your own space, feel happiest living alone, or simply not be ready to share a home. Not wanting to move in doesn’t automatically mean you love your partner less.
It’s worth talking plainly about whether you mean “not now” or “not ever,” especially if your partner sees moving in as an important next step. Neither preference is wrong, but a big difference in expectations can matter for the relationship. You don’t have to move in just to prove you’re committed.