Is it normal to not want to own your pets anymore?
Yes, it’s normal to feel overwhelmed or to wish you didn’t have pets, even if you care about them. What matters is making a thoughtful plan so they’re cared for, whether that means getting support or finding them a suitable new home.
Pet care can be more demanding, expensive, or emotionally draining than you expected. You can love your pets and still wish you didn’t have the responsibility—that doesn’t make you a bad person, and plenty of owners have moments like this.
If it’s a temporary rough patch, practical help, a break, or advice from your vet may make things feel manageable again. If you truly can’t or don’t want to keep caring for them, responsible rehoming through someone you trust or a reputable rescue is kinder than forcing yourself to carry on while their needs go unmet. You don’t have to decide in a moment of guilt or frustration.