Is it normal to regret marrying your spouse?
Yes, it’s possible to regret getting married, at least at certain points, and having the feeling doesn’t automatically mean your marriage is doomed. What matters is whether it’s a passing reaction to a rough patch or a persistent sign that something important isn’t working for you.
Marriage can bring stress, disappointment, and big changes, and people sometimes wonder whether they made the right choice—especially during conflict or a difficult season. You can love your spouse and still regret the decision, or feel regret without being sure what you want to do next.
Try to notice what the regret is pointing to: a specific problem you might be able to talk through, or a deeper mismatch that keeps coming back. If it feels safe, an honest conversation or couples counseling may help you sort out what you need. You don’t have to decide the future of your marriage based on one painful moment.