Is it normal to stay friends with exes?
Yes, plenty of people stay friends with an ex, while others prefer a clean break. It tends to work best when the breakup is settled and both people have clear boundaries.
It’s normal either way. Some exes genuinely enjoy each other’s company once the romantic part is over; others need distance to move on, and neither choice means you’re doing breakups wrong.
Friendship is more likely to work when you’re both over the relationship, nobody is quietly hoping to get back together, and your contact feels comfortable rather than confusing. New partners may have feelings about it too, so being open and respectful about boundaries can help.
You don’t owe an ex friendship, and you don’t have to cut them off just because other people think exes should never talk. Pay attention to whether the friendship actually feels good for you.