Is it normal to want your man to cheat on you?
It can be normal to find the idea of your partner being with someone else exciting, even if you wouldn’t want actual secretive cheating. The important difference is whether it’s a consensual fantasy you both agree to or a real breach of trust.
Some people are turned on by jealousy, sharing, or imagining a partner with someone else; others would find the same idea upsetting. A fantasy doesn’t automatically mean you want your partner to lie to you or that anything is wrong with your relationship.
If you want to explore it, talk about what “cheating” means in the fantasy and what would actually be okay in real life. Keep it honest and consensual—secretly breaking an agreement is different from exploring a shared kink, and you’re allowed to discover that the fantasy is better left as a fantasy.