Topics Friends & social life

Is it normal to be alone in high school?

Depends.It depends

Yes, it’s normal to spend time alone in high school, whether by choice or because you haven’t found your people yet. It matters most whether the alone time feels okay to you or leaves you feeling lonely.

High school can make it seem like everyone else has a close-knit group, but plenty of people spend time on their own or are still figuring out where they fit. That doesn’t mean there’s anything wrong with you, and being alone can be genuinely comfortable if it’s what you want.

If you wish you had more company, you could try one small way to meet people—like joining a club, talking to someone in class, or spending time with a person who seems kind. You don’t need a huge friend group; even one connection can make school feel less lonely.

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