Is it normal to be annoyed by your mom?
Yep.Totally normal
Yes—getting annoyed by your mom is completely normal, even if you love her. Being close to someone can make their habits and old family patterns especially good at pushing your buttons.
Parents have a special talent for saying the exact thing that gets under your skin, sometimes because they know you so well and sometimes because you’ve heard it a thousand times. You can love your mom and still find her habits, advice, or opinions irritating.
What matters more is how you handle it. If the annoyance is constant, it may help to notice what tends to set it off and take a little space or talk about a boundary calmly. Feeling annoyed doesn’t make you a bad child—or mean you don’t care about her.