Is it normal to be attracted to a relative?
Depends.It depends
An unexpected attraction or thought about a relative can happen, and having the feeling doesn’t mean you want to act on it. What matters is keeping clear boundaries, especially with a close relative.
Feelings and passing thoughts aren’t always something you choose, and they don’t automatically say anything about your character or intentions. How you feel about it may depend on the kind of relative and whether the attraction is fleeting or something you’re dwelling on.
You’re responsible for your actions, though: don’t pursue a sexual or romantic relationship with a close family member, and respect everyone’s boundaries. If the thoughts are upsetting or hard to manage, talking them through privately with a therapist can help without judgment.