Is it normal to be attracted to your son-in-law?
Unusual.Less common, but harmless
It can happen to feel attracted to your son-in-law, even if it feels awkward or surprising. The feeling itself isn’t a choice; what matters is keeping clear boundaries and not acting on it in ways that could hurt your family.
Attraction can show up where you didn’t invite it, including toward someone who’s part of your family by marriage. Having the feeling doesn’t mean you want to betray anyone or that you have to do anything about it.
Because acting on it could cause real hurt and upheaval, keep things respectful: avoid flirting, private or secretive intimacy, and situations that encourage the attraction. You can let the feeling pass without turning it into a family drama.