Is it normal to be jealous of your partner's dog?
Yes, it’s pretty normal to feel a little jealous when your partner’s dog gets lots of attention, cuddles, or prime spot on the couch. The feeling matters less than how you handle it—your partner can love the dog and still make you feel cared for, too.
A dog can be a surprisingly powerful rival for lap space, attention, and even the bed. If you’re feeling left out, that doesn’t make you a monster; it may just mean you want more affection or quality time with your partner.
People differ on how cute they find a partner’s all-consuming dog devotion, so it’s fair to talk about what’s bothering you without turning it into a contest. Try asking for a little more one-on-one time or affection—and remember, the dog probably isn’t plotting against you. Probably.