Is it normal to be obsessed with your husband?
It’s normal to feel intensely in love with your husband and think about him a lot. It’s worth paying attention if “obsessed” means you feel distressed, lose yourself, or try to control each other.
If you mean you adore him, want to spend lots of time together, or get a little giddy thinking about him, that’s a common part of being deeply in love. People vary in how intensely they show affection, and there’s no quota for how much you’re supposed to miss your spouse.
The word “obsessed” can also mean the thoughts feel intrusive or the relationship is taking over your life. If you’re neglecting yourself, feeling panicky when he’s away, or either of you is monitoring or controlling the other, that’s a sign to look at what’s going on—not a reason to shame yourself.