Is it normal to be obsessed with your wife?
If “obsessed” means you adore your wife and think about her a lot, that can be perfectly normal. If it means you feel compelled to control, monitor, or crowd her, it’s worth taking seriously and talking about boundaries.
People often use “obsessed” playfully to mean they’re head over heels, love spending time with their wife, or still get excited to see her. That kind of enthusiasm is common, especially when the feeling is mutual and you both still have room for your own friends, interests, and downtime.
The word lands differently if it means intense jealousy, checking up on her, or feeling unable to let her have space. Strong feelings don’t make controlling behavior okay; a good relationship still needs trust and boundaries. If that’s closer to what you mean, talk with her honestly about it and consider what’s driving the urge.