Is it normal to dislike family members?
Mostly.Normal for most people
Yes, it’s normal to dislike or feel distant from some family members. Being related doesn’t guarantee you’ll get along or feel close.
Family ties don’t automatically create affection, compatibility, or trust. Plenty of people love some relatives, feel neutral about others, and actively dislike a few—especially when there’s a history of conflict, hurt, or clashing personalities.
You’re allowed to have that feeling without turning it into a dramatic family showdown. You can be civil, limit contact, or set boundaries; you don’t have to pretend you’re close just because you share a last name. If the relationship involves mistreatment, protecting your wellbeing matters more than keeping up appearances.