Is it normal to feel nothing when kissing?
Yes, it can be normal to feel little or nothing when you kiss. It may be about the person, the moment, or simply not enjoying kissing much—and you don’t have to force yourself to feel a spark.
Kissing doesn’t automatically come with fireworks. You might feel neutral if you’re not that into the person, feel awkward or distracted, or just not enjoy kissing as much as other people seem to. Sometimes the chemistry grows; sometimes it doesn’t, and that’s useful information rather than proof that anything is wrong with you.
People have pretty mixed feelings about kissing, and there’s no required reaction. If you want to keep exploring with this person, you can take your time. If you don’t want to kiss them, you’re allowed to stop—even if you can’t explain exactly why.