Is it normal to hate uni at first?
Mostly.Normal for most people
Yes, it’s normal to hate university at first. A big change in routine, people, workload, and independence can feel rough before it starts to feel familiar.
Starting university can be a lot all at once: new expectations, unfamiliar people, and maybe being away from home. Even if you wanted to go, the reality can feel lonely, stressful, or just not what you pictured.
Some people settle in quickly; others need weeks or months to find their people and get into a rhythm. You don’t have to love every part of it, but try changing one thing at a time—finding a club, talking to a classmate, or asking an adviser about workload. If the misery sticks around or is making it hard to function, reach out to campus support or someone you trust.