Is it normal to hate video calls?
Mostly.Normal for most people
Yes, it’s normal to hate video calls. Lots of people find them awkward, draining, or more tiring than talking in person or by phone.
Video calls ask you to watch your own face, read a slightly glitchy version of someone else’s, and keep performing attention while sitting alone in a room. It’s no wonder they can feel weird or exhausting, especially if you prefer texting, phone calls, or face-to-face conversation.
Some people love the convenience; others would happily never see another tiny floating head. If you can, suggest a phone call or messages instead, or keep video calls shorter. You don’t need a deep reason to have a communication preference.