Is it normal to hate your boyfriend?
It’s not unusual to feel “I hate him” during a fight or a rough patch, even if you still love your boyfriend. If that feeling sticks around or keeps coming back, it’s worth looking at what’s making you so unhappy.
People sometimes use “hate” to describe a burst of anger, hurt, or frustration. That can happen in relationships, especially during conflict, and it doesn’t automatically mean the relationship is over.
But if you regularly feel contempt, dread spending time together, or resent how he treats you, don’t shrug it off as just a normal relationship thing. Try to name what’s underneath the feeling and talk about it when you’re both calm; it may also be a sign you need to rethink the relationship. If you feel unsafe with him, put your safety first and reach out to someone you trust.