Is it normal to have a crush when you're married?
Mostly.Normal for most people
Yes, it’s normal to feel a crush even when you’re married. Having the feeling isn’t the same as acting on it; what matters is how you handle it and the boundaries you and your spouse have.
Marriage doesn’t switch off your ability to notice or feel drawn to someone else. A crush can pop up even when you love your spouse and feel happy in your relationship, and it doesn’t automatically mean anything is wrong.