Is it normal to not always feel attracted to your partner?
Yep.Totally normal
Yes. Attraction often ebbs and flows, and you don’t have to feel drawn to your partner every moment for the relationship to be real or healthy.
Attraction isn’t an on/off switch that stays in the same position forever. Stress, tiredness, conflict, routine, and simply being distracted by life can all affect how much you feel it at a given time. Plenty of people have stretches where their partner feels more like a beloved teammate than a movie-star crush—and then the spark picks up again.