Is it normal to not be obsessed with your boyfriend?
Yep.Totally normal
Yes. You can love your boyfriend without thinking about him every minute or making him the center of your world.
“Obsessed” isn’t the price of admission to a good relationship. People show affection differently, and a steady, comfortable connection can feel less consuming than a new crush or the dramatic romances you see in movies.
What matters more is whether you enjoy being with him, care about how he’s doing, and feel respected and connected. And if you’re asking because you feel distant or don’t want to spend time together, that’s worth reflecting on—but not being glued to him is perfectly normal.