Is it normal to not get as turned on by your partner?
Yes, it’s normal for how turned on you feel by your partner to fluctuate. It doesn’t automatically mean you’ve stopped loving them or that the relationship is in trouble.
Desire can dip for all sorts of reasons: stress, tiredness, routine, tension between you, changes in health or medication, or simply not being in the mood. Lots of couples go through stretches where one or both partners feel less desire, and it doesn’t always mean anything dramatic about your attraction or relationship.
If it’s bothering you, try talking about it gently without turning it into a blame game. You can also think about what helps you feel relaxed, connected, and interested—and whether anything has changed lately. If the shift is sudden, lasts a long time, or comes with other changes that concern you, it may be worth checking in with a healthcare professional.