Is it normal to not like your in-laws?
Depends.It depends
Yes, it’s normal not to feel close to or even like your in-laws. You don’t have to be best friends, though basic respect and clear boundaries can make family life easier.
You can love your partner and still find their family irritating, awkward, or just not your kind of people. Lots of people don’t click with their in-laws, especially when personalities, values, or expectations clash.
You don’t have to force affection or pretend you’re close. Aim for civility, and talk with your partner about any specific behavior that’s causing friction. If the issue is more than a personality mismatch—say, repeated disrespect—reasonable boundaries are fair.