Is it normal to not like your mother?
Yep.Totally normal
Yes. You don’t have to like your mother just because she’s your mother, and having complicated or negative feelings doesn’t make you a bad person.
People can feel this way for all sorts of reasons: clashing personalities, old hurt, feeling misunderstood, or a relationship that simply doesn’t feel close. Family ties don’t guarantee warmth or compatibility, even when there’s love or history involved.
Your feelings may change over time, or they may not. You’re allowed to set boundaries and choose how much contact feels right for you. If the relationship is hurting you or feels unsafe, talking it through with someone you trust can help.