Is it normal to not like your partner during pregnancy?
Yes, it can happen to feel irritated, distant, or even temporarily dislike your partner during pregnancy. Those feelings don’t automatically mean the relationship is in trouble, but what’s behind them matters.
Pregnancy can bring physical discomfort, stress, big changes, and shorter patience—and sometimes your partner becomes the person you’re most annoyed with. You might also feel unsupported or have old relationship frustrations come into sharper focus. The feelings can shift over time; they aren’t proof that you’ve stopped loving your partner.
If you can, try naming what’s bothering you and asking for specific support, rather than treating a rough patch as a final verdict on the relationship. If the dislike feels constant, is tied to serious problems between you, or you feel unsafe, reach out to someone you trust or a professional for support.