Is it normal to regret getting married?
Yes, it can be normal to regret getting married at times, especially during stress or conflict. What matters is whether the feeling passes or points to problems that need attention.
Marriage is a big commitment, and it’s possible to love your partner while also wondering whether you made the right choice. Stress, conflict, feeling trapped, or grieving the life you imagined can bring up regret—without automatically meaning the marriage is over.
If the regret sticks around, gets stronger, or is tied to feeling unsafe, controlled, or deeply unhappy, don’t brush it aside. Try to get specific about what you wish were different, then talk with your partner if it feels safe; a couples counselor can also help you sort through what’s fixable and what isn’t.