Is it normal to regret marrying someone?
Yes, it can be normal to regret getting married, especially during a rough patch or when the reality of marriage feels different from what you expected. The feeling matters, but it doesn’t automatically mean the marriage is doomed or that you have to stay.
Lots of people have moments of wondering whether they made the right choice, especially during conflict, stress, or a big life change. Sometimes the regret is about the timing, the wedding, or how the relationship is working right now—not necessarily about the person as a whole.
If the feeling keeps coming back even when things are calm, or you feel trapped, unseen, or unable to be yourself, it’s worth taking seriously. You don’t have to make a huge decision overnight; talking honestly with your partner or someone you trust can help you figure out what the regret is telling you.