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Is it normal to still be attracted to your ex?

Mostly.Normal for most people

Yes, it’s normal to still feel attracted to your ex after a breakup. Attraction can linger even when you know the relationship is over or don’t want to get back together.

A breakup doesn’t instantly switch off chemistry, memories, or the familiar pull of someone you once cared about. For lots of people, attraction fades on its own, though it can pop back up when you see your ex or feel lonely.

It doesn’t automatically mean you should get back together. Pay attention to what you actually want, and keep clear boundaries—especially if either of you is seeing someone new.

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