Is it normal to text less as the relationship progresses?
Yes, it can be normal to text less as a relationship settles in. What matters is whether you both still feel connected and comfortable with the change.
Early on, you may text constantly because everything is new and you’re figuring each other out. As the relationship becomes more established, people often relax into their routines and don’t feel the need to narrate every part of the day by text.
But “normal” varies: some couples like frequent check-ins, while others barely text and connect more in person or on calls. If the change feels abrupt, or you’re feeling ignored or unsure where you stand, bring it up without treating texting as a scorecard. A simple “I miss hearing from you during the day—what feels good to you?” can help you figure out whether your preferences line up.