Is it normal to text less in a relationship?
Mostly.Normal for most people
Yes, it’s normal for couples to text less as a relationship settles in or life gets busy. What matters is whether you both feel connected and can talk openly about what you need.
Lots of couples text less over time. The early days can mean constant updates and flirty messages; later, you may feel secure enough to save more conversation for when you’re together. Work, routines, and different texting styles play a part too.
A change in texting by itself doesn’t prove anything is wrong. But if the shift feels sudden or leaves you feeling ignored, bring it up without turning it into a tally: “I miss hearing from you during the day—what kind of check-ins feel good to you?” People vary a lot in how much texting makes them feel connected.