Is it normal to want to give your puppy back?
Yes—feeling overwhelmed or wishing you could give your puppy back is common, especially early on. It doesn’t make you a bad person, but it’s worth honestly weighing what’s best for both of you.
Puppies can turn your routine upside down: accidents, chewing, interrupted sleep, and needing attention all the time. A lot of people get a wave of regret or the “puppy blues” after bringing one home, even when they genuinely care about the dog.
Give yourself a little room to adjust, and ask someone you trust for help with walks, training, or a much-needed break. If you still feel unable to meet the puppy’s needs, returning them to the breeder or working with a reputable rescue is a responsible choice—not a moral failure. The kindest option is the one that gives both you and the puppy a good chance to thrive.