Is it normal to be jealous of your boyfriend's female friends?
Yes, it’s pretty common to feel jealous of your boyfriend’s female friends sometimes. What matters is whether you can talk about it without trying to control who he sees or assuming the worst without a reason.
A little jealousy can pop up when you feel insecure, left out, or unsure where you stand. It doesn’t automatically mean your boyfriend is doing anything wrong—or that you’re a bad partner for feeling it.
The useful question is what’s behind the feeling. Is he secretive, flirty in a way that crosses your boundaries, or consistently prioritizing a friend over you? Or is the friendship itself bringing up worry even though he’s been open and respectful? Those call for different conversations.
Try telling him what’s bothering you without demanding that he end a friendship. You can talk about reasonable boundaries and reassurance; trust and respect need to go both ways.