Is it normal to fantasize about other women while in a relationship?
Yes, it’s normal to find other people attractive or fantasize about them while you’re in a relationship. A fantasy doesn’t automatically mean you love your partner less or want to act on it.
Being committed doesn’t switch off your imagination or your ability to notice other people. Lots of people have private fantasies; what matters more is how you treat your partner and whether you respect the boundaries you’ve agreed on together.
People differ on what they’re comfortable hearing about, so you don’t have to share every passing thought. If the fantasies feel more compelling than your relationship, or you’re hiding behavior that crosses your agreements, that’s worth taking an honest look at—not because the thought itself makes you a bad partner.