Topics Thoughts & feelings

Is it normal to lie to yourself?

Mostly.Normal for most people

Yes—most people bend the truth to themselves sometimes, often to avoid uncomfortable feelings or make a tough situation easier to handle. It’s worth paying attention if it keeps you stuck or leads you to ignore something important.

Yes. People often tell themselves things they half-believe, make excuses, or focus on the comforting parts of a situation. Usually it isn’t a deliberate, movie-villain kind of lie; it’s your mind trying to soften disappointment, fear, or uncertainty.

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